cal answers questions {still + life}

Good mail day...

Good mail day...

Cal answers your questions about the Page Program.

From Christine at The Plumed Nest: They make you wear coats if it's below 50 degrees? Is this a part of the page rules or just a rule by the chaperones? What are the pins that you wore on the lapel of your jacket? Did you get any sort of memento's from your time there?

Yes. We had to wear our coats when it was 50ยบ or below. This was a Senate Page Program rule (it was different in the house). Everyday in the page room, the temperature and the soup of the day was written on a white board and the board would say "coats: yes" or "coats: no." Senate pages were allowed three pins on the front lapel. One of the pins was issued to us and the other two had to be approved. My pins were a Ralph Northam, Lt. Governor pin and a City of Norfolk pin. We weren't allowed to wear anything partisan although some people did on the backs of their lapels! All the pages received a blanket from the governor's inauguration, and on the last day we got a new pin that was the seal of Virginia. And just recently we got pins that say "Virginia Senate Page." We all loved collecting pins.

From Jenni: What do you hope to do (next?) with your experience? Is there a second year/follow-up opportunity that only those partaking in this year can take advantage of in a future year? Do you hope to put together a presentation? Encourage a friend to participate? Get more involved in politics in the future?

There is no second year option for the Page Program, although I'd like there to be! I am going to give a presentation on the program to my school soon at what we call a chapel talk. I do want to get more involved in politics in the future. I'd also like to get involved in the same program, except this time in the US Senate.

From Noreen at Beauty in Everyday Life: Did you learn a lot? What was the hardest part? The best part was making friends with all the other pages?

Yes, I did learn a lot! Especially about government, but also how to manage my money and life. The hardest part was saying goodbye to everybody at the end though I still remain in touch with people. One of the greatest parts was making friends, but I also really liked working with the Lt. Governor and his staff and working for them.

From Meghan at My Wishful Thinking: That must have taken some getting used to!? I might be echoing other comments but I have a couple of questions (as usual). What time did your day finish? It sounds like a lot of hard work and running around (but also lots of fun). What are you hoping to do next? Can you enroll for a second year? Has it made you want to get involved in politics?

Our day finished at 5PM when we walked back to the hotel to get our stuff and go to dinner. After dinner, we had study hall from 7-9PM. I do want to get involved in politics because I really enjoyed it and hope I can do something like it again!

weekend recap, mother's day edition

1. wonder wheel | 2. empty | 3. horizon | 4. whiskey kitchen | 5. neel's garden | 6. mother's day bouquet | 7. my hearts | 8. mother's day shout out

1. wonder wheel | 2. empty | 3. horizon | 4. whiskey kitchen | 5. neel's garden | 6. mother's day bouquet | 7. my hearts | 8. mother's day shout out

I had to scrabble all the way back to Thursday for this week's photo collage, partly because the blues are so pretty and just scream summer to me, but also because the middle photo (of the eggs, graciously gifted by my friend Kim) was chosen this week to be featured by 365_today, which is a photo-a-day community on Instagram. That was a total bonus! You guys know I love prompts, but I tend to be particular about them (when they're not my own). I drop in and out of various prompt groups as the themes speak to me, and I never dreamed I'd be featured. For some reason this one hit the mark. Made my week.

Oh, and that photo of the empty plate? I'll have more to say about that later, but I spent Friday night, also with my friend Kim, at the soft opening ("What the hell is a soft opening? When they opened The Flamingo, one day it was closed, the next it was open. End of story. I know, I was there." ~Saul Bloom, Ocean's 13) of the Whiskey Kitchen taking pictures for our friend and owner Delynda. It was thrilling to be there and we had a great meal! Like I said, more on that later...

We had a lovely Mother's Day, heading back to our traditional brunch spot (I love brunch), the same place where this happened last year. Remember that? I'd totally forgotten until our neighbor reminded me. Yesterday's brunch was pretty tame! My favorite gift came from Callum who gave a donation in my name to the wonderful organization, Midwives for Haiti.

Midwives for Haiti was previously unknown to me, but it's an organization that combines two things that are dear to my heart. I've always been fascinated with Haiti, and as a former birth doula, safe prenatal care and healthy deliveries for both mom and baby are very important to me.

Let me tell you a bit more about it. Haiti has a population of 10 Million and is the poorest country in the Western Hemisphere. The statistics for mothers and children are devastating. 75% of women are not attended at their births by skilled professionals, and the maternal mortality rate in the country is alarmingly high. Out of every 100,000 births, 350 women will die (as a comparison, 12.7 women out of every 100,000 will die in the US). Haiti is the most dangerous country in the Western Hemisphere to give birth, and most maternal deaths would be prevented with adequate care. Haiti also has the highest infant and children mortality rate in the Western Hemisphere, with children who have lost their mothers 10 times more likely to die prematurely.

The 2010 earthquake that devastated Haiti also closed the government midwifery school. Midwives for Haiti seeks to train Haitian nurses to become skilled birth attendants. Their goal is to help reduce Haiti's maternal mortality rate by 75% by 2015.

"By ensuring that all mothers in Haiti receive prenatal, delivery, and postpartum care by Skilled Birth Attendants, more mothers will be there to care for their families. Communities and a developing country will continue to be built around the strength and industry of women." *

What an amazing organization in a stunning and heartbreaking country. My boy knows me well. Made his Momma proud.

*All information via Midwives for Haiti.