Monday Mash Up, May 7

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Hello my dears! How was everybody's weekend? We had loads of busy and loads of fun. We have a new Friday night tradition of ordering pizza and salad from a local pizza place. Neel swings by on his way home from work (and has a beer at the bar while he waits) and orders our special and we tuck in for the night. We'd considered taking Cal and a friend to a minor league baseball game that night but everyone was so wiped out, Neel especially, it was nice just to come home. He'd actually had a great week, but unfortunately, on the way to get the pizza, he popped a tire on Blanche, our Mini Cooper, and had to change it. Neel was really intrigued that no one offered to help him. Sure, in part it was because he is a man, but as Neel said, he'd at least ask if someone needed help! I told him it was because he was grinning so much from all the good news he got that people thought he was happy to change his own tire.

Saturday was, frankly, crazytown. Cal had a baseball game at 11, but it was also Field Day at his school. This is a big deal. It's an all-day event with races and games on the Midway (the grassy area in the center of the track), all those inflatables that kids love to jump on and in. There's face painting and spray paint for hair and talent shows and plant sales. It goes on and on and on. There's delicious food and everyone volunteers for some part of the event. We went for a bit, dashed for baseball, and dashed right back. The cool thing about Callum's Field Day is that it gets greener every year, and this year's goal was zero-waste. It was a Bring-Your-Own-Water-Bottle event, and the entire day was run on one solar panel. A popular item are lemons, sold for a dollar, that have a hole carved in them with a peppermint sticking out. Cal had about four. When we pulled in at home that night we ran into our neighbors, and the wife of the couple is an alumni of Cal's school. "Field Day!" she cried. "I love Field Day. Do they still have those lemons with the peppermints?" At the end of the day everyone gathers in a place called "The Pit" for the Faculty Follies where a group of faculty perform a dance, but the high point of Field Day is the raffle. The Lower School alone sold over 20,000 raffle tickets for prizes like baseball tickets, surfboards and beach cruisers. We never have any hope of winning, but it's fun to watch. A final traditation comes at the very end, when the raffle is over, everyone throws all their tickets up in the air. It's a neat celebration. It's tiring too. Still, despite our fatigue and all those lemons, we managed to go for ice cream after dinner.

Sunday was nice and slow. Callum has exams coming up (as evidenced by my kitchen island), so he studied while I edited photos and Neel worked (of course he did) in the garden. What started gray and cool ended sunny and cool and very lovely. Oh, and here's something funny that happened. Callum was sitting with me finishing up a book for homework while I was at the computer, and all of the sudden, I felt the whole energy of the room change. The mood completely shifted. The air grew heavy and dark, and I thought, suddenly, "Callum's sad." Almost as soon as I thought it, he closed his book and said, "This book was good, but it was really sad." How weird is that???

Still, it was a nice day. The house is definitely livelier with Neel in it. It's so nice to have him home. We had the windows open all afternoon, and it felt so nice to stand in my family room and feel the breeze move all the way through the dining room and living room. I finally put away all my winter clothes. Summer is calling isn't it?

What's everybody's week like? I can feel things winding up for Callum and me too. I'm ready. Summer really is calling, isn't it?

five things may 4th edition

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1. I think I missed you guys! No time to blog, no time to check blogs. No time to even read my comments. My friend Mark even had to call and check on me! I'm fine. We're fine. But me no likey.

2. I think Callum and I managed really well with Neel gone, actually. He left at 4 a.m. last Friday and got home around 1 a.m. Thursday morning. We're not apart much as a family, and it's been awhile since Neel's been gone, especially for this long. We survived with few mishaps; only a cracked iPod (devastating), but two big baseball wins helped. We were busy, which also helped, and now Papa is home and everything can get back to normal. I'm tired.

3. I think I have some shopping to do. ! And some planning. Callum's lower school graduation is coming up and all of his grandparents will be here to help celebrate. I'm thrilled for him that all of his family will be here to help celebrate. There is much to anticipate and much to look forward to. But. What am I going to wear, and what am I going to fix to eat?

4. I think Neel and I will have to sit down and have a major pow-wow about everything that needs to be done around here before family descends on us in the next few weeks. You can expect that list soon.

5. I think I love early hydrangea time. Hoping they're in full force in another few weeks. And how are you? What have you guys been up to all week? Has the weather been nice out there? Did I tell you that Neel told me his trip was just like being on vacation! I might need to dump a cup of coffee on his head! xoxoxox