five things, november 30 edition

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1. I think one of the worst things about this time of year is discovering all the things I want to buy as I'm shopping for, ahem, everyone else. Coat from Fossil (free shipping!)! Coffee table from West Elm! Rug and holiday dishes from Crate and Barrel! I can't decide if I need to hurry up and get everything done or step slowly away from the computer. Oh, and I still want a white Christmas tree.

2. I think it's pretty funny that Callum suggested that I monetize my blog so I can buy a house on Nantucket. Ha! The pageviews that would take = comic/out of reach/un-fun/ridiculous. But don't think I haven't been looking for real estate.

3. I think it's also pretty funny/sad that Violet was so happy to see us that she actually had a wipe out on our floor and hurt one of her back legs. Don't worry, she's fine. It's only prevented her from jumping onto the sofa (not allowed), and she's already much better. But it's nice to be missed.

4. I think I am so glad it's Friday. We generally build in a rest day when we come home from a trip, and by the end of the week this week I'm definitely feeling the absence of that day. On Monday, Callum's backpack ripped, meaning that even the simplest act of carrying his books to school has been rendered more difficult. On Tuesday Neel had a 7 AM meeting, and before midday he called to tell me that this particular group was meeting again at 5 that night. We've had meetings and baseball and tests and deadlines, your typical re-entry. I'm not complaining (really!), because our trip was so completely worth it. I'm just ready to rest a little, that's all.

5. I think this boat, the Lauren, represents one of my favorite stories from our trip to Nantucket. Before we left, I told Neel and Callum a bit about the trip to New England I took as a kid. Yes, you may have heard, we toured the Breakers. But one day we wandered down to the harbor area of Newport, RI which, as it is still, was rimmed with shops. It was another stormy summer afternoon. When the skies darkened, my dad and I darted into a toy shop. Right as we did, the power went out! Yikes! It was a tiny wandery little shop with high, cluttered shelves. We lingered during the worst of the storm, and when the rain let up my dad bought me a boat, a small wooden sailboat with a green hull (Never mind that the power was out! No power needed to pay cash and hand write a receipt.). I loved it. That evening, when I played with the boat in my hotel room bath (it floated!), I decided to name it the SS Mary Jane (after my mom). People, I was seven. Give me a break.

Well. My husband and my son could not have enjoyed that tidbit more. Guffaw, guffaw. Make fun of Mama, naming the boat the SS Mary Jane. And I still don't see what exactly is so funny, but anyway.

Fast forward a year or two, and here were are at the harbor in Hyannis. Lookee what do we have here, hmmmm? A boat named after another wonderful mother: the Lauren. Complete with a faithful hound. How do you like that boys?

I whipped Big Daddy out as fast as I could! Also drawn toward the boat was a tall young man. He turned to me as I was snapping a few shots, and we commented on the sweet dog in the prow of the boat. The young man's voice as lightly accented, and he laughed when I told him that I liked the boat because it was named after me (he knew I was kidding). Turned out, he was from Norway, but had been studying in the US, in New York City, for the past four years. Was he planning to stay, I asked him. Ummmm...maybe. His parents, here visiting, were meeting his girlfriend's parents for the first time that weekend. That's a lot of pressure for Thanksgiving, don't you think? It seemed (are Norwegians subtle?) that his decision to stay depended a bit on that meeting. Once the boat had left the dock and we were well on our way, he saw me on deck and asked me to take a picture of him and his mom (and yes, I had a moment of freak out when he called me by name...how did he know my name?!). So what do you think happened? Our weekend was wonderful, but how was his?

five things, november 16

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1. I think we're gearing up for another highly social weekend.And Thanksgiving next week? Well, that'll be pretty social too. Maybe I need to just wave the white flag of surrender until the end of the year. Callum has a sleepover tonight. We have dinner with friends tomorrow night (and this one I can't wait to tell you about), and then Sunday is a going-away party for our Aussie neighbors who are (sadly) heading back to their homeland. It's all good stuff, really good (except the saying good-bye part), but I feel mindful that it's a lot. Leah, I need to channel your calm. Send some my way, please.

2. I think I have mixed feelings about makeovers at make-up counters. If you follow me on twitter, you might have seen that I somehow found myself at the Laura Mercier counter at Nordstroms (ahem). I chatted with Theresa and Erin about this yesterday (on twitter, not, sadly, at the Nordstrom's make up counter). Make up counters can be tricky to navagate. Since we had an event that night (see #5), I let the gal at the counter go to town on me, and my feelings about the results were... mixed. The eyeshadow that I'd been scouting out was just what I was looking for, but her application? Heavy. For me at least. And then she pulled out the Dior brow pencil on me. Hmmmm. Do I need to spend $30 on a brow pencil? I didn't think so until I took off my make up that night. Now I'm not so sure. I'll take (less expensive, also awesome) recommendations.Erin suggested powder (?) and brushes (?). Hmmmm... Given that the pillows I'd just purchased for us were pretty much a bust, I'm feeling cautious.

3. I think I'm still undecided on those darn ankle boots.I don't wear leggings or skinny jeans really, and I'm short. Can I still get them? What do I wear them with besides skirts?

4. I think I'll (praise god, fingers still crossed) have an almost-finished bathroom remodel update for you soon! In the meantime, have you seen Nina's inspiration post for her bathroom reno? It makes me want to start all over! Wink, wink.

5. I think it was a pretty good week for us. Basking in Neel's reflected glory is not at all a problem for this family! On Wednesday he was honored with the Dean's Award for Achievement in Teaching in the Basic Sciences. It was one of several awards handed out at an annual reception hononring all of the faculty and staff at the medical school where Neel has made his career. It's a lovely event that has grown lovelier over the years. Last night's reception, Neel aside, was really nice. Personal and family like. Two women were honored for 40 years of service to the school... which was founded 39 years ago! Callum barreled through his homework so he could come along and see his dad get an award, and we sat with Neel's lab who gave him a standing ovation when he took the stage. For years now, I've given Neel a load of good-natured (I promise) grief for not mentioning me at his PhD thesis defense seminar. Last night he kindly honored both me and Callum for sticking with him through some tough and busy times. How could we not? And Wednesday night we got to see that his colleagues know about him what we've known all along. He's pretty special.