five things, the 'I'm back baby' edition

Big Ben and the Eiffel Tower, seen through the Lensbaby

Big Ben and the Eiffel Tower, seen through the Lensbaby

1. I think  I've been spending a lot of the time since we've been back (in between loads of laundry and grocery store trips [and I say "trips" because you can't make potato salad without potatoes, Lauren.] thinking a lot about how to write about our trip. How do I break down all of the lovely things we did and saw? How do I categorize all of the photos I took? These are the things that keep me up at night. (wink) I know if I sit with it long enough, a pattern will lay itself out for me (and one that doesn't take the form of boring you guys with endless travel posts!). I'll be back to regular posting next week with a full recap. I've missed you guys.

2. I think  we never could have made this trip with out the help of our dear friends/neighbors/pet & house sitters. My friend Catherine helped out with the dogs, giving Violet extra cuddles and doing some general clean up. She and her husband also took us and picked us up from the airport AND made us dinner the night we got home. Our neighbor, who is Cal's bestie and our regular pet sitter/house watcher, Brian is just the best of young men. He's the kind of kid who will tell you that watching your dogs is a pleasure in a way that makes you believe it. Watching our dogs this time could not have been a pleasure. Honestly? We never in a million years dreamed that Violet would still be with us. Her care isn't difficult, but it can get complicated (read: messy), and when we came back she seems perkier than ever! How great is that? We took Brian out for wings Wednesday as part of his thank you, and I have a thank you planned for Catherine too.

And what would I have done without the dear friends who tended this space as well? Fauzi, Angela and Rooth wrote such moving posts, didn't they? I hope you enjoyed them. What would we do without dear friends?

3. I think  the Lensbaby was a great purchase. Both lenses actually. I never even took out my 50mm, and I could totally see how it would be too tight in a lot of the situations I would have used it for. So the 35mm stayed on the camera 80% of the time and the Lensbaby came out for fun. There's still an incredible learning curve with that one, but I'm going to continue to have fun with it for sure.

4. I think  the key to this trip for us was flexibility. Isn't that always the case? Did you notice that there weren't any photos of Normandy in my Instagram feed? I'll explain it all next week. Sometimes I think I'm not a great traveler. I put too much pressure on myself to have such! a! great! time! And especially to see! everything! But then I try to remember that if we want, we can get back. It's not the trip of a lifetime, it's one of our many wonderful trips. Going back. Now doesn't that sound delightful?

5. I think it's fascinating how travel focuses your mind about your day-to-day life. I always come back from trips refreshed (well sort of) and thinking about changes (both little and big) that I want to make. For me, it always turns to simplify, downsize, and perhaps more cups of tea.

 

720 posts later, from angela

Hi guys! Well, of course Paris is wonderful. I can't wait to tell you all about it next week. In the meantime I hope you'll enjoy the final installment of guest posts in "My Blogging Journey" from my friend Angela. Angela is awesome! She is a photography friend of mine who has the funniest posts and best tweets, and every time I go into my Target, I expect to see her there. Except she lives in Massachusetts...

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Hey y'all! I'm so happy that Lauren asked me to guest blog while she was away on her big family trip. My name is Angela and I blog over at Please Mommy, no More Daddies...  I am a mom to four awesome kids and the fiancĂ© to a very wonderful lady.  We live just off of Cape Cod in MA.     

Lauren asked me to write about my blogging journey. I started my blog in 9/2010.  This is my very first post.  That post is not very exciting. The picture links in it don't even work anymore and I'm too lazy to go back and fix them. But it is a post about firsts and it was my first post, coincidentally.

I started blogging as a way to share with people more than the typical Facebook status or the 140 character tweet. I felt like our story was a good one and maybe one that people would be interested in. So I started blogging in 9/2010, wrote one post and didn't blog again until 6/1/2011. Nine months later. 

I'm not sure what contributed to the lapse in actually blogging except for life. I guess I wasn't ready to commit the time. 

Since that second post in 6/2011, I've published 720 posts. I've come to really enjoy blogging. I go through peaks and valleys where I will blog more or less depending on what is going on in my life.When I first started blogging I got very caught up in the "blogging world".

I was very eager to have other bloggers love me. Or even like me. It was very much about sharing our life but also meeting new friends and getting as many followers as possible I follow almost three hundred blogs on Bloglovin'. That's a lot of blogs people! And the giveaways, I entered every single giveaway ever.

Blogging has changed for me now. I don't put myself under so much pressure anymore. It's ok if my post gets zero comments. Heck it's ok if it gets zero views. I no longer blog for the exposure, the friends and the loving. Somewhere along the way I started blogging for me. For my family.

I don't think my blog has changed much outwardly except that I blog a lot less now. But it's still us, our lives and sometimes something crazy awesome that I found on the internet. My blogging journey now is more about preserving memories for our family. A kind of digital scrapbook. Will that make me a famous blogger? Definitely not. But knowing that our kids will be able to go back someday and look through it and at the wonderful wife we've lived, perfection.